Positive Thinking
31 January 2024

The Transformative Power of Positive Thinking

In the intricate tapestry of mental health, positive thinking stands out as a vibrant thread that can weave profound changes over time. While it might seem simplistic, the impact of cultivating a positive mindset on long-term mental well-being is supported by a growing body of research. This article explores the intricate relationship between positive thinking and mental health, highlighting the transformative effects that an optimistic perspective can have on our overall well-being.

It took me some time to choose to focus on ‘Positive thinking’ as a means to well-being as hearing the words “just think more positively” was always a bit of a grey area for me; I found myself putting my defences up! Perhaps because it always seemed quite cliché, and almost ‘too’ simple (although I definitely believe we, as humans, can over complicate matters). Its something you hear and then completely overlook, or at least it was for me. But as with anything, unless you practice it and then experience the benefits first hand, you’ll never quite understand the hype. In most cases, the simple things really are the things that make the difference. Have you ever tried taking 3-5 deep breaths in a stressful situation? If you have, you'll know that this very simple practice is extremely effective in the moment, if you haven’t, you really should try it next time you’re feeling stressed and overwhelmed. We’re going to focus on the simple practice (the word practice being key here) throughout this article, of Positive thinking.

Thinking Positively

The Positives on Thinking Positively

Below are reasons to support why Positive thinking can enhance more than just our mental well-being, but also every area of our lives:

The Neuroscience of Positivity:
Neuroscientific studies have shown that engaging in positive thinking can lead to measurable changes in brain structure and function. Positivity is associated with increased activity in areas of the brain related to emotional regulation, such as the prefrontal cortex. Over time, this positive neural plasticity can contribute to enhanced emotional resilience and a more balanced mental state.

Stress Reduction & Resilience:
Positive thinking acts as a powerful buffer against the detrimental effects of stress. When faced with challenges, individuals with an optimistic outlook tend to perceive them as temporary and surmountable. This cognitive reframing not only reduces stress levels but also fosters resilience, enabling individuals to bounce back more quickly from adversity.

Enhanced Emotional Well-Being:
A positive mindset is closely linked to improved emotional well-being. Individuals who habitually engage in positive thinking are more likely to experience lower levels of anxiety and depression. The optimistic lens through which they view the world allows for greater emotional flexibility, enabling them to navigate life's ups and downs with a sense of equanimity.

Improved Physical Health:
The mind-body connection is a well-established concept, and positive thinking contributes significantly to physical health. Studies have shown that individuals with a positive outlook tend to have lower rates of cardiovascular diseases, better immune system function, and a higher likelihood of adopting healthier lifestyle habits. The ripple effect of positive thinking extends beyond mental well-being, positively impacting overall health.

Longevity & Positive Ageing:
Maintaining a positive attitude has been linked to increased longevity and healthier aging. Research suggests that individuals who approach life with optimism tend to live longer, healthier lives. The ability to find joy and meaning in the later stages of life contributes to a more fulfilling and satisfying existence.

Improved Coping Mechanisms:
Positive thinking equips individuals with effective coping mechanisms when faced with life's challenges. Rather than succumbing to negative thought patterns, those with an optimistic outlook are more likely to adopt problem-solving strategies. This proactive approach enhances their ability to overcome obstacles and empowers them to navigate life's complexities with greater ease.

Cultivating Positivity:
The journey towards a more positive mindset involves intentional efforts to reframe thoughts, practice gratitude, and focus on solutions rather than problems. Techniques such as mindfulness meditation and positive affirmations can play a crucial role in reshaping cognitive patterns and fostering a more optimistic worldview.

Playing To Your Strengths

Playing To Your Strengths

I have had the privilege to work with an amazing mentor, and what she has taught me about Positive psychology has expanded my mind and helped me to change and update my perspectives around my own strengths and weaknesses. It really is ok to play more to your strengths and to not focus as much on your ‘weaker’ areas. We are taught to strengthen the areas we are weakest in, for example, let’s say you really love to paint, you’re very passionate about it and you produce beautiful pieces, however someone tells you that you should hone in and focus more on writing, but you don’t necessarily enjoy writing, it doesn’t give you the same freedom that painting does. Strengths are also in our character, i.e. I value Honesty in my character (which means being without pretence, getting to be myself just as I am) above Leadership (organising group activities, encouraging others, maintaining good relations in the group). In other words, Honesty is further up my list of strengths than Leadership is, therefore its ok for me to focus on how I can bring more honesty, more of my authentic nature to myself and others, and not focus as much on how can I lead, or how will others view me in a leadership role etc. It’s great to improve and adjust areas we feel we may be lacking in, but it’s also perfectly natural and wonderful to focus on what we are already good at and to perhaps reach mastery within that strength instead.

The link below is to a website that can aid you to understand your own strengths and what characteristics you may value more than others. It’s a great place to start to understand where you could be focusing your attention a little more and perhaps, to accept the things that are lower on the list, and to hone in on the things that are higher up. It surprised me what characteristics were higher on my list but it made an immense amount of sense when I accepted it. So give it a try if you’d like, it may just surprise you too.

This is straight from the VIA character website –
“Take this simple, 10 minute character test and discover your greatest strengths. Research shows that knowing and using your character strengths can help you:

  • Increase happiness & well-being.
  • Find meaning and purpose.
  • Boost relationships.
  • Manage stress & health.
  • Accomplish goals.”

https://www.viacharacter.org/account/register

 

Practicing Positive Thinking

Practicing Positive Thinking

Practicing positive thinking as a daily habit involves incorporating specific techniques into your routine. This is going to involve a lot of will-power and consistency, but also A LOT of self-compassion for the days when ‘life’ seems to get in the way. Here are several techniques to help cultivate a more optimistic mindset:

Gratitude Journaling:
Set aside time each day to write down three things you are grateful for. Reflect on the positive aspects of your life, no matter how small. For example, I have written down before how grateful I was that morning for my delicious scrambled eggs I had taken the time to make for myself – it can really be small things, they end up being the ‘big’ things that make up the whole.

Positive Affirmations:
Create a list of positive affirmations that resonate with you. It’s great to get inspiration from various sources where you can, but I find there’s something very special about making your own list that you can refer to every day. Repeat them daily, especially in the morning or before challenging situations.

Mindful Breathing & Meditation:
Practice mindfulness meditation to bring your attention to the present moment. Focused breathing can help calm the mind and promote a positive outlook.

Visualisation:
Imagine your goals and dreams coming to fruition. Imagine yourself stepping into that version of YOU that you so long to be, and then BE that version NOW. Visualisation can enhance motivation and create a positive outlook for the future.

Surround Yourself with Positivity:
Choose to spend time with positive, supportive people. Their energy can influence your mindset and help reinforce optimistic thinking.

Limit Negative Media Consumption:
Be mindful of the media you consume. Limit exposure to negative news and focus on uplifting and inspiring content. Podcasts are fantastic for this I find.

Challenge Negative Thoughts:
When negative thoughts arise, don’t try to push them away, create a space for them, but challenge them by questioning their validity. Replace negative thoughts with more positive and realistic ones. Try to see the best in every situation, no matter where your thoughts go.

Celebrate Small Wins:
Acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. This fosters a sense of accomplishment and boosts confidence.

Practice Self-Compassion:
Probably (in my opinion) one of the most important practices on our journey, and one I personally took a long time to incorporate. Treat yourself with kindness and understanding. Replace self-criticism with self-compassion, acknowledging that everyone makes mistakes.

Engage in Activities You Enjoy:
Set aside time for activities that bring you joy and fulfilment. Engaging in hobbies and passions can elevate your mood. And don’t forget passions can be something as simple as walking in nature.

Acts of Kindness:
Perform random acts of kindness for others. Helping others can create a sense of purpose and contribute to positive feelings.

Create a Positive Environment:
Surround yourself with positive quotes, images, or affirmations in your living or workspace. A positive environment can influence your mindset. I personally have Wayne Dyer quotes everywhere, my favourite being “This too shall pass”.

Learn & Grow:
View challenges as opportunities for growth and learning. Embrace a mindset that sees setbacks as valuable lessons. Be kind with yourself though, this one can definitely take a bit of time.

Express Gratitude to Others:
Take the time to express gratitude to people in your life. Whether through a note, message, or in person, acknowledging others fosters positive connections and builds/supports healthy relationships.

Focus on Solutions:
When faced with problems, shift your focus from dwelling on the issue to identifying potential solutions. This proactive approach promotes a positive problem-solving mindset.

Consistency is key when establishing positive thinking as a daily habit. Experiment with these techniques, and tailor them to suit your preferences and lifestyle. Over time, integrating these practices into your routine can contribute to a more optimistic and resilient mindset.

Mental Health

The effects of positive thinking on long-term mental health are both profound and far-reaching. By consciously cultivating a positive mindset, individuals can experience improved emotional well-being, resilience in the face of challenges, and even physical health benefits. I always find that when I am compassionate with myself, I don’t berate my body, I move my body more in intentional ways, and all of this produces physical (as well as mental) benefits! I don’t feel as bloated or inflamed or stressed. As we continue to unravel the intricate connections between the mind and body, the transformative power of positive thinking emerges as a valuable tool in the pursuit of lasting mental health and overall well-being.

I read once, that what the mind expects, it finds. Our thoughts are not just simple, fragile pieces of information that come and go; we can be completely ruled by our minds if we don’t intervene in its patterns and keep it in check. Another realisation that really helped with my perspective on my thoughts, and how wild and diverse I found them, was when I heard that our minds/thoughts really are on our side and just trying to keep us safe. It may not seem that way at times, it certainly hasn’t for me, I have definitely been my own worst enemy, however our thoughts are a product of our experiences, therefore they will only churn up old patterns and habits due to past experiences, but only to keep us safe (albeit in its own, sometimes deluded way). So if we can cultivate compassion for the anxious and scatty, and sometimes ridiculous thoughts we can have, and see them as our minds previous coping mechanisms/strategies, we can reign it back in conscious awareness and start being more positive with ourselves going forward. Our present words have much more say over our lives than we think and our future happiness depends on our ability to keep this in check.

“A positive attitude gives you power over your circumstances instead of your circumstances having power over you.” - Joyce Meyer

“If you’re thinking positive during negative times, you’ve already won.” - Anonymous

“Being positive isn’t pretending that everything is good – it's seeing the good in everything.” -Anonymous